Senti Queen

Before my thoughts on this matter slip out of my mind, I better write them down.  In response to those truths about men I posted earlier… Guys, here are some views for you to ponder on so you can understand us women better inasmuch as we try to understand you in return.  Let’s just celebrate our likeness and embrace our differences.  Read on.

1.  I need to hear you love me at least once a week.  It’s one of the most comforting statements I could keep to survive my daily battles.

2.  I’ll do anything for love.

3.  If you don’t want to argue with me, don’t give me reasons to be upset with you.

4.  I don’t like men with long hair. Period.

5.  If I open up to you and cry my heart out, I don’t need solutions.  I just want you to listen.

6.  When I say “no” during confrontations, I really mean “yes”. (Like “Galit ka ba?”)

7.  Whenever I ask you if I look too fat or not, I am not expecting for truths or lies but acceptance for what I am inspite of.

8.  I notice other men who are more physically attractive than you are but ‘yon lang ‘yon.

9.  I feel happier when I see you happy.

10. If I don’t feel anymore that I am making you happy, I’d suspect you’re falling in love with another woman.

11. The reason why it takes too long for me to get dressed is because I want to look my best for you.

12. If ever I smoke, it’s a sign of power and being in control with myself.

13. I get scared if you tell me you need me. I’d rather hear that you want me.

14. If you can stand my moods and quirks, you’re in for the long haul.

15. If you hurt my feelings, all I need to hear is a sincere “Sorry” for me to forgive and forget.

16. If you did something really hurtful, I’d leave you even if I still love you.

17. I do appreciate a man who knows and provides for my needs without me asking.

18. If you are too vain, I’d think you’re gay.

19. Never ever criticize me for my looks. I will never forget it.

20. I love it when you just let me talk and talk and talk about how my day went and just give me a kiss without saying anything.

21. Every single thing that you do for me is forever etched in my heart.  I may not say thank you all the time but I do appreciate your efforts, big and small.

22. If you can fulfill my emotional needs, you won’t be having some difficult time turning me on.

23. I hate it when you don’t ask for my help at all.  It makes me feel you don’t consider me as your partner.

24. If you sleep over, I’d expect that you do your share in the chores.  You’re not a guest, remember?

25. I prefer making love, not having just sex. Get it?

26. If I smile back, I like you.

27. If I seek your advice or opinion, it means I trust you.

28. Sometimes, I like being pursued aggressively.  ‘Yoko ng torpe.

29. You’ll earn my respect if you can keep your promises.

30. When other girls flirt with you, I get jealous.  But behind the smirk, I actually  feel proud that others still find you interesting.

31. When I am upset, I tend to be emotional.  But I’m not angry at you, I’m angry at what you did.

32. I love surprises! (Even if I tell you I don’t.)

33. When I’m with you, don’t gaze at other women.  It makes me feel insecure.

34. I’m always in touch with my feelings.  I tend to focus more on relationships rather than achievements.

35. Sometimes, I appreciate if you tell me what you want.  I’ll be glad to do things for you, too.

36. When I am angry and tells you, “‘Wag ka munang magpapakita, ‘wag mo akong tatawagan!”, I secretly hope you’ll do the opposite.

37. I am a pleaser especially if I really love my man.

38. If I do mention about an ex, it doesn’t mean that I’m making you jealous or making a comparison. I just want you to know how far better and more special you are than the rest.

39. If I don’t share with you what I am thinking, it’s because it’s not about you.  It’s about somebody or something else.

40. I also hate arguments.  Being nagged about the past turns me off.

41. I love it when you hold my hand while we are watching a movie. 

42. Telling me outrightly not to wear this or that gives me the impression that you want to change me.

43. A gentleman like you should still open doors for me even if I swear to high heavens that I am a hardcore feminist.  Any act of chivalry never fails to make a good impression.

44. If I tell you we are better off as friends, better believe me. I really mean it.

45. I am more attracted to your brains than to your body.

46. If I act strangely and don’t even bother to call or see you, brace yourself.  I have fallen out of love. 

47. When I am upset, I need to talk it out for me to feel better.

48. Cheat on me once, maybe I can still forgive you.  But the degree or intensity of what I feel for you will never be the same again. (Meaning, magbi-break din tayo.)

49. If I’ve really fallen in love with you, I’ll remember all the details the first time we met.

50. If I’ve shown you my baby pictures and brought you to places very significant to me, that means I am sooo in love with you!

Need I say more??