“Mahal kita pero hindi kita gusto. I’m sorry..” (meaning, maghiwalay muna sila). That was a line I heard from Migs while watching Your Song last Sunday. Makes sense! How about “Gusto kita pero hindi kita mahal“? Likewise possible, isn’t it?
ON LIKE: Liking each other means having a higher level of compatibility, enjoying each other’s company, having great conversations, being comfortable with each other’s presence even at your worst form or state, always looking forward to see each other after every (temporary) parting, supporting each other’s interests and ambitions, or simply feeling good whenever you are together.
ON LOVE: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Inspiring. Painful. Confusing. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
IN SHORT: You have to LIKE and LOVE each other if you want FOREVER. If a person you really LIKE pisses you off, love kicks in to save the day for both of you. In the same way, if a person you really LOVE pisses you off, your liking for him or her leads you back into love.
Any failed marriage or relationship for that matter has proven that love (or liking) alone is not enough to keep two people together.
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